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Monday, December 3, 2012

Book Review: I am Nujood, Age 10 and Divorced by Nujood Ali with Delphine Minoui

I am Nujood, Age 10 and Divorced by Nujood Ali with Delphine Minoui is the staggering account of a 9-year-old girl married to a man in his 30s and then bravely - on her own - goes to court to obtain a divorce. The story left me speechless. The entirety of the story took place in 2008.

Nujood lives in Sana'a, Yemen.  She was 9 years old at the time of her marriage and divorce - a 4th grader in the U.S. - That was something very hard to wrap my mind around. In Yemeni homes, the law is laid down by fathers and older brothers. Nujood's father forced her to marry a man from the tiny village where she lived as a [small] child. Hastily married, this little girl resolved to escape her brutal husband. She had the courage to rebel against an entire culture....society.....in a country that does not have women's shelters, no women's rights. Nujood was on her own to get across the city, into the courthouse, and before a judge. Nujood could have been murdered for an "honor crime." Staggering.

In 2008, the age of consent for marriage was 15. [In 2009, it was changed to 18.] However, child marriages are still customary in Muslim countries. In the countryside especially, there is a tribal  proverb: "To guarantee a happy marriage, marry a nine-year-old girl." Nujood was the first child ever to successfully divorce her husband in the Arab world. For instance, in Saudi Arabia in 2009, an 8-year-old girl successfully sued for divorce from her husband, a man in his 50s, whom she was forced to marry.

Nujood with her lawyer,
Shada Nasser
Nujood's story includes the many wonderful people in Yemen who helped Nujood with her divorce - her lawyer, the judges, family (including an uncle and her father's second wife), and the journalists who made Nujood's story known internationally.

The story was tastefully - and tactfully - written by Ms. Minoui. It is a story about courage and hope. Please, please take the time to read Nujood's story. Her voice needs to be heard.

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I am a stay-at-home mom to three boys (18, 16, 14), three Mini-Dachsunds, and a wife to an incredible husband {think MacGyver}. I am Catholic. I am passionate about making a difference in my world while still making a great life for my children and family. Besides being a mom, I am also a blogger for freddythewienerdog.blogspot.com and thedailylifeofcarol.blogspot.com. I hope to make my voice heard and make a difference in my own way.